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HOW TO GET PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU

Getting people to like you is not as hard as you think, you don’t need to have the “it factor” as they call it, you don’t even have to try to impress anyone, it’s really easy.

FIRST IMPRESSION

Remember the saying “first impression”? I don’t really know if that’s a saying but let’s move on,, well a person’s first impression of you is what they will almost always remember about you.

BE YOURSELF

Yes, just be yourself, don’t act or try to portray yourself as someone you are not, because believe me this is the stage that will make or break a relationship and if by some means you do get to be friends, you will be discovered as a fraud.

Unless you’ve had some acting lessons…..

LISTEN

Remember how Beyonce said listen to the voice from deep within? Now is the time to bring out your listening skills, I know it can be really tough listening to another person go on and ooooonnn like forever but trust me its for your own good.

You see, when you listen to someone speak, you get to know them, you get to understand how they think, what kind of personality they have, that give’s you a sort of leverage like a head start to plan out you next move, which inpowers you to successfully interact with them according to their level of understanding.

You also come across as intelligent and reliable and cool, you do want people to like you right?

PLAY HARD TO GET

People always want what they cant have, they thrive for what they cant have, always try to be the hunted not the hunter this adds value to your worth, whenever they are around, show them that nothing else matters, it all about them, that way when you are away they will miss you.

Do you understand the words that’s commin outta my mouth “chris tucker”.

LAUGHTER

This is my favorite, laughing releases stress, tension and some other medical mumbo jumbo term, i think its endorphins, which is responsible for our feelings of excitement and satisfaction,, laughing makes our faces look younger and i also hear that its a natural remedy for tense heart muscle…

Laughter is the  balm that heals all emotional wounds, for any quality relationship to work, laughter is a must!

Go have yourself a nice laugh please, well that’s it for me today guys chaooooo

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